“Fight for yourself,
and you’ll survive!”
What a “fight” really means?
Power, trust, ability, damage, danger, lost and victory ? We don’t know
for sure… I see a connection between these words..The power is not that
important if you don’t have trust in
your abilities s and if you don’t know how to prepare yourself against the
danger …!
But most important thing about fight is: when you think you
have a battle to win, make sure it worth’s…because if
there’s not a good, important, rational reason… you’ll fight for nothing , and
maybe you ‘ll sacrifice yourself for nothing.
I think that the most important battle is with yourself…
that fight really need sacrifices … to win a fight with you , you must see
inside you ,in your heart, in your soul… you must figure out what you think,
what you feel ,why are you feeling ,if someone deserve your feelings, and what
really means something for you in this world .You must know, you must have all
the answers for their questions, you must have reasons for your acts…but they
don’t know how hard and difficult is for you to make decisions…to break up on
someone, to say goodbye, to let it go...They don’t know those things and they
judge you , they make wrong impressions, they don’t trust you anymore… but why
they act like that? Why we act like that? Why people have a heart, a soul, but
they have a mind to?! The heart feels against the heart…and the mind think
against the feelings..! Why must always be a contradiction between those
two? As human beings we are capable
intellectual and emotional…then why we can’t find a relation between heart and
mind…or between feelings and thoughts ?? We are intelligent, we discover
things, we save lives, we are capable to devise, we are trying to understand
how the nature and the Universe function… then
why people seems like they don’t understand ,when you know for sure that
they can? The answer: they don’t wanna take look inside you, they don’t know
how to open their minds ..or they don’t know how ,or they don’t wanna do that !
There are moments in life when you can’t afford to lose a
battle with yourself… cause that battle is the most important for you …it’s the
war for you ! Must be! And to win that war… you must be confident, headstrong,
ambitious, direct, dynamic, energetic…! You must figure out what you feel,
that’s very important for you and for the people that know and care about you !
But I know that ‘till then, you’ll hurt people, but they’ll understand..they
have to !
Don’t matter if you
lose the fights, you must win the war .. the war represents you ,represents
your principles, your virtues, represents all your life . And don’t forget
..that war ,inside you ,is necessary … necessary for you , for the people that
you love….for you to have a life plump of happiness, joy, confidence, love.. !
“Do not pray for an
easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.” –Bruce Lee
Because in this life,
we must be survivors!
Am gasit asta pe net, un psiholog zicea:
RăspundețiȘtergereWhen I ask clients, “How is your relationship with yourself?” the immediate response is something like, “I am really hard on myself.” “I don’t like myself.” Based on hours of counseling I noticed a trend. Most clients judge, condemn, guilt, and drive themselves to perfection. Loving Yourself as God Does begins where many of us struggle: in an internal war with the person I really don’t like: myself.
Desi solutia pare simpla, totusi, cum te poti pune in locul Divinitatii, cum poti fi obiectiv asupra tie insuti?
Echilibrul cred ca este raspunsul, desi incomplet... orium, zice bine Bruce Lee. :)
Ziceai acolo ... "drive themselfs to perfection" - nu e chiar asa. In zilele noastre, se cam cauta si promoveaza oamenii astia, care cica sunt "perfecti". Societatea impune aceasta conditie, traim intr-o lume in care exteriorul conteaza mult mai mult decat sufletul sau sentimentele unei persoane, care pentru o buna perioada de timp, credea ca va putea schimba ceva, ca va aduce o schimbare lumii.. ca poate, intr-o zi, cineva isi va reaminti ca nu doar ambalajul conteaza, ci ceea ce gasesti inauntru. Dar a ajuns la limita rabdarilor, si, simtindu-se neindreptatit, o ia pe aceeasi cale pe care apuca cu totii, condusi fiind (in mod inconstient) de societate. Ceea ce e pacat. In loc sa aspiram la un nivel de inteligenta cat mai ridicat, la promovarea bunatatii in lumea asta haina si rea, la promovarea bunurilor moravuri, aspiram la perfectiune! Nu este ceva nou, dar in schimb, este dezamagitor! Parerea mea. Plus ca oricat de mult am trage pentru ceva, niciodata nu o sa fie/fim perfect(i). Poate doar Dumnezeu este perfect ! :)
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